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Job Hunting Is Demoralizing

Ilinap · February 8, 2021 ·

No one talks about how demoralizing it is to be unemployed. So much of ourselves is intertwined with our careers - self-worth, sense of accomplishment, power, influence. To be without work means my own self-worth wanes, my sense of accomplishment fades, and let’s be honest, in a … [Read more...] about Job Hunting Is Demoralizing

Tags: America, career, employment, job, pandemic, women, work, working

Who’s looking after the mothers?

Ilinap · April 28, 2020 ·

Motherhood takes the form of many hats, not all of them flattering or comfortable, but each uniquely necessary. Who's looking after the mothers? We talk about "self care" because there's no one but us to do it. And yes, sometimes the language of motherhood is martyrdom. In the … [Read more...] about Who’s looking after the mothers?

Tags: children, family, friendship, home, motherhood, pandemic, smash the patriarchy, work

The Value of Creativity

Ilinap · December 11, 2018 ·

"We've always done it this way." The utterance of this sentence makes my skin prickle. It tells me everything I need to know about the person who says it and the people who nod in agreement. An adherence to this mindset demonstrates an utter lack of creativity and vision. To … [Read more...] about The Value of Creativity

Tags: creativity, curiosity, work

It’s Time to Stop Being Surprised by Harassment

Ilinap · October 15, 2017 ·

"Me too." It's a thing happening on Facebook right now. Women are simply uttering the words "me too" to illustrate just how many of us have faced harassment in the workplace. My feed is filled with this. I have never in my life had a job where I was not sexually harassed. The … [Read more...] about It’s Time to Stop Being Surprised by Harassment

Tags: equality, harassment, Harvey Weinstein, women, work

Be A Boss (With a Little Help From the Forte Foundation)

Ilinap · November 28, 2016 ·

I  once had a boss who sent a taxi to her daughter’s elementary school to pick her up when the nurse called saying she was sick. The little girl was ten, just a year younger than my youngest son is now. I was fresh out of college at the time and recall thinking to myself that I … [Read more...] about Be A Boss (With a Little Help From the Forte Foundation)

Tags: business, education, school, women, work

Working Girl

Ilinap · November 9, 2015 ·

There it is, the first day of work photo. Hey, these milestones aren't just for kids. It's been over 12 years since I had a "first day of work." Cue the new girl jitters. I've had my own marketing and branding consulting business for the last 12 years. It's been both feast … [Read more...] about Working Girl

Tags: career, home, job, motherhood, parenting, work

Mommy Guilt at Work

Ilinap · August 8, 2013 ·

  One of life's greatest lies is "Time flies when you're having fun."   This is not a post about leaning in, opting out, or any such thing. It's just about me, my kids, my choices. Infer what you wish. Heed advice from between the spaces if you find anything … [Read more...] about Mommy Guilt at Work

Tags: children, family, motherhood, parenting, responsibility, work

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