When is a compliment earnest and when is it unsavory? In the last few weeks I've been approached by strangers (all men) to tell me they like my dress or I carry myself well or that I must have a "lucky fella" at home. I was even told in the airport, "Don't take this wrong. I'm … [Read more...] about On Flattery
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On Allies
There are times life’s journey makes us feel like Sisyphus. Every day we roll up the proverbial rock, only to watch it fall back down, crashing our souls with every step. There are a legions of people who feel disenfranchised in this world and live the life of Sisyphus every damn … [Read more...] about On Allies
UN Global Goals – Gender Equality Starts at Home
It is a fallacy to think that moms of boys don’t care about gender equality. Double standards be damned. I am raising two sons, and the forefront of my parenting philosophy is to impart a steady, keen focus on gender roles and gender equality. I joke that I don't want my sons to … [Read more...] about UN Global Goals – Gender Equality Starts at Home
Make Up Isn’t What Makes You Shine
We have such messed up ideals of beauty. There's been lots of hubbub in social media showing photos of women with and without makeup. I have always found that I never really learned to wear make up, so I stick with my staples of under eye concealer, liquid eyeliner, and mascara. … [Read more...] about Make Up Isn’t What Makes You Shine
Stand Up to Misogyny – 5:00 Fridays TM
Last night on Twitter a dad blogger tweeted something pretty heinous about rape that ignited a fire storm. He basically said that another way to describe rape is women crying wolf when they wake up feeling remorse. He has subsequently deleted that tweet and apologized (screen … [Read more...] about Stand Up to Misogyny – 5:00 Fridays TM
An Open Letter to My Best Girl’s Beau
Dear Beau, Beau is so much better than "boyfriend" and connotes more fondness than "partner." Don't even think about taking on the moniker "lover" or I shall laugh until whiskey comes out my nose. Beau seems fitting, no? This much is true about our girl - she's tough, yet … [Read more...] about An Open Letter to My Best Girl’s Beau
Cecilia Rawlins Fund – Handmade in Raleigh
The laws of science can be attributed to moms. Moms keep us grounded. Moms make the world go 'round. In 2010 a group of moms and the school social worker met to address hunger issues among our school's children. With a focus on raising students’ academic success and an … [Read more...] about Cecilia Rawlins Fund – Handmade in Raleigh