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What I Want for My Kids

Ilinap · February 24, 2026 ·

I want my kids to know that home will always be a safe place to land. I want my kids to lay their head in a warm bed with cozy covers and the cool side of the pillow to strike the perfect balance. I want my kids to revel in the joy of a home cooked meal and riveting, sometimes … [Read more...] about What I Want for My Kids

Tags: America, children, community, family, family dinner, friendship, parenting, values

Giving Simple Thanks

Ilinap · November 26, 2020 ·

These are hands down my favorite holiday decorations. Who knew toilet paper rolls, paper plates, construction paper, and glitter would bring me such joy? Bird said he was thankful for a ball, our cat, Mom, TV, and toys. Deal was thankful for orange pumpkins, friends, toys, Beary … [Read more...] about Giving Simple Thanks

Tags: 2020, family, friendship, holidays, thankful, Thanksgiving, values

Who’s looking after the mothers?

Ilinap · April 28, 2020 ·

Motherhood takes the form of many hats, not all of them flattering or comfortable, but each uniquely necessary. Who's looking after the mothers? We talk about "self care" because there's no one but us to do it. And yes, sometimes the language of motherhood is martyrdom. In the … [Read more...] about Who’s looking after the mothers?

Tags: children, family, friendship, home, motherhood, pandemic, smash the patriarchy, work

My Friends are My Heroes

Ilinap · March 8, 2020 ·

I don't want to wax about the state of the patriarchy. We're smashing it slowly, and I swear, if I listen rrrreeeeeeaaaalllllyyyy closely, I can hear the creak of glass ceilings cracking bit by bit. For now, I want to celebrate the women who are making a difference, fighting the … [Read more...] about My Friends are My Heroes

Tags: equality, friendship, International Women's Day, leaders, patriarchy, women

Connections Matter

Ilinap · November 2, 2019 ·

The world is indisputably more connected than ever before. Yet paradoxically, we are also more disconnected. Face to face interactions are replaced by screens with time delay jerkiness and buffering. We don't inherently look people in the eyes, and parents are constantly … [Read more...] about Connections Matter

Tags: be a connection, child abuse, children, connections matter, family, friends, friendship, kids, motherhood, North Carolina, parenting, PCANC

Listen Up

Ilinap · January 17, 2019 ·

    I have a lot to say. This makes me a poor listener. But I'm trying to improve. We dishonor others when we don't listen. Most of the time, people chime in about themselves rather than taking a moment to pause, reflect, and ask a question or offer an … [Read more...] about Listen Up

Tags: friendship, listening, relationship

Shot@Life Summit – Where Tribes Meet

Ilinap · March 10, 2016 ·

When I am at the Shot@Life Summit I am with my tribe, my people, my girls. These are like-minded, smart, passionate women who yammer about the same issues at their dinner table as I do at mine. I suppose we annoy our families and friends in the same way, but when we are together … [Read more...] about Shot@Life Summit – Where Tribes Meet

Tags: advocacy, children, friendship, Shot@Life, values, volunteer

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